Rules of dating a sugar daddy
I'm 44, but look 34, thanks to very good genetics and a healthy lifestyle, and I attract mostly guys in their mid 20s looking for someone a little older.When I finally tell them the truth--that I'm old enough to be their father--they don't really care.The guy I've been seeing is financially secure (relatively well-off, but certainly not rich).He's led a pretty full life and has experienced a lot, which means he has good stories to tell and helpful advice to give. The fact that he's been to just about every bar and restaurant in the city means he is now perfectly content spending a quiet evening at home, which suits me just fine.Maybe because he was sort of immature which made me feel even older.
When I finally tell them the truth--that I'm old enough to be their father--they don't really care. It's a great thing not to look your age in the gay world, and I'm going to milk my great genetics as long as I can.
It gave me a real complex and induced a crippling shyness in me. I'm still really shy so I never let it go to my head or take it seriously. The flip side of your story is that nobody wants you.
Now I get hit on all the time by guys and girls in the 20s. A few times I've had girls take pictures of me on their phones while just walking down the street. Yes, there must be something wrong with everybody else, not you.[quote]Either you pony up with the cash, or settle for some schlub with a daddy complex. I dated a younger guy who definitely felt that way.
I also noticed that many â [bold]not all,[/bold] but many â of the ones who are available:(1) only want to date guys who are in their 20s and early 30s;(2) have never been in a long-term relationship; if you are in your 50s, and you have never had a relationship that lasted longer than a few dates or a few months, that could be a real problem;(3) just gave up on themselves, i.e., decided that they no longer had to take care of how they look (as in they donât go near a gym and make exceptionally poor eating choices), and complain about their âailmentsâ as if they are 85 and in a nursing home;(4) are either just plain weird or have a harsh, bitter, jaded edge that is really unpleasant to be around. As I said, slim, but not nonexistent, so, hope springs eternal. It's a little annoying to me, but anyway it happens so you might as well try. Because younger guys looking for older men are looking for someone to take care of them.
Iâm very involved in the community, have a lot of friends and a fantastic dog, and never lack for things to do or people to do them with. Or, in the short term, buy them things and take them on trips.